[FlDebra]

Sure, you are well within your rights to place the dog anywhere you desire once she has given her refusal. Since it is important to you to keep on good terms, I would just explain to her as you have to us here. Tell her you are very concerned with the dog's welfare and would never place him in an environment that the breeder would not approve if she was here to assess herself. You might also sell her on the idea that since he is proven and such a good example of the breed, it would be a shame not to have him perpetuating the line. Assure her that you will find someone who is just as concerned about the welfare of the dog, the breed, and the art of selective breeding as the two of you. It sounds like that is your plan. Remind her that she had to assess your integrity and finding it worthy entrusted this dog to you. Tell her that same integrity will ensure the dog is placed with the right family again. Good luck to you and this little sire.