So the issue that I see here is the the OPer is too busy to drive Emma half way to Amanda. Amanda is willing to pay the $650, spay and foster or rehome her. If I was able to put together a transport to get her from point A to point B what is the issue then? I would be willing to use whatever means that would be necasarry to get her to Amanda without any stress to the OPer. There are transports done all the time just like this and she could be in Amandas home very quickly. Would you be willing to let me put together this transport if Amanda was willing to take on the responsibility of Emma's care, spay and rehoming? If you already have an ad in place and someone called today with the cash in had would you not let her go for the $650? IMO there is not one person that would be willing to pay this amount of money for Emma other than Amanda so why not just take what is offered and be done with the entire situation? Maybe you should talk this idea over with your husband and see if this would work. That way you will have $650 in your hand and Emma sold, spayed and your children and other pet will be safe from Emma's aggressive behavior. To me this would eliminate all of your problems and finally bring peace not only to your family but also to this board.
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