I don't let it bother me. S'anah is a teapot for sure and I am GLAD she is. She is the perfect size for us!
On the other hand, it is interesting to note that twice now I have had the OPPOSITE reaction about my 4 month old shih tzu, Norman. He is far TOO SMALL for a shih tzu! He will never make the standard (9 - 16 lbs). Am I sure he is pure bred because he is too tiny, etc.
Funny how opinionated people are about our babies isn't it?