I have 3 children and while reading your post I tried to think if any of my kids have ever reacted to situations in the same manner and they havent. I know that kids go through many phases as they grow up and no 2 children are the same. I just wanted to say that Im sure you are nervous and afraid...they are our babies but you are doing the right thing as a mommy....trying to find help. she will be ok, she has a great mom who is trying her best to find out if there are any problems and early intervention is key. without turning this thread into my own, I will say that something with my son at one was point was not right, at age 2 he was dx with autism, all these professionals told me"prepare yourself for a long hard road, he will never be the child you thought you were going to have". He is 8 yrs old today in regular ed, happy normal 8 year old. so while it is scary and we worry so much, we are so strong and god helps us through it all. if you ever need to talk I am a PM away