Well since I have such super obsorbant pads in her diaper and she is so small ( her pee barely makes a tiny puddle) I went ahead and trimed off the sides of the pad. So far she can put her legs together better- no bowleggedness and more

They didnt fall apart yet either(the pad) like I was worried about, but she hasnt pottied in one so I dont know if I would have a problem with leakage yet. I doubt it though. Just thought I'd update ya'll