I didn't post, just read and saw that one person explained why they used the word "fishy." I hope you stick around, because maybe even the people that hurt your feelings didn't mean to.
I am new here, so I hardly know anyone. The few that I have corresponded with have been great! I love this forum, and if ever anyone says anything that could be hurtful to me, I will just figure they are having a bad day and go on.