 For Those of You who have recently lost your Babies
I lost my Smokey two weeks ago on Friday, so I know what you are going through. It is devastating. I found so much comfort here on this site, so I would first like to say to you, GRIEVE! as long and as hard as you need too. Don't let anyone tell you how you should grieve. Don't let anyone tell you how you should act, or what you should do.
Take some time and remember your baby, before you decide what to do with it's tiny little body. Hold on to the wonderful memories and know that you gave love unconditionally.
A wonderful book to read is Cold Noses at the Perly Gates, by Gary Kurz. It is a very comforting book, and it will help you to heal.
Bless each of you and know as many on this site told me two weeks ago. You will never be forgotten and you will always hold your baby in your heart. The little body is gone, but all those wonderful memories that they gave you are present all around you.
Get away by yourself and tell your baby what they meant to you, and how they changed your life. Come to this site and express your grief to those of us who understand your grief. We love you, I found that out. This family truly loves us, and we are here for you.
Kita
My Smokey will forever be near, and every time I think of some of the funny things he did, he still makes me smile. |