[Sugar's Mom]

Sorry to be blunt but if things she does are unattractive to you and you can't get past that, as you say, it would be a nice thing to do for the little gal to place her with someone else that will love her in spite of everything and it will be a load off your mind as well. hopefully, you will begin to look at her differently and love her anyway in spite of her faults. It is easy to get in over your head with these little guys. That being said, there are places that the vet will laser the tail off and it is hardly a problem at all but I personally would leave it on. You can get her spayed anytime.