Oh, bless your heart, what a horrible thing to have to try and decide. I think your decision to talk with the surgeon again is great. That's what I'd do. I always need a little time to get past the shock and think about what was said. Then I go back and ask more questions and follow my gut instinct.
Whatever you decide will be the right thing for you and Violet. Please keep us informed of how it goes. We are all right there with you and will be saying prayers for a great outcome.
