We use the Buddy Belt (leather), which is a step-in harnesss. Step-ins avoid the neck entirely. Also, check out ChattiesMom - she makes step-ins as well and they're very nice!
__________________ ~ A friend told me I was delusional. I nearly fell off my unicorn. ~ °¨¨¨°ºOº°¨¨¨° Ann | Pfeiffer | Marcel Verdel Purcell | Wylie | Artie °¨¨¨°ºOº°¨¨¨° |