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Originally Posted by Pixelate It's funny how people want to jump on me for being "negative" or having "attitude" when most people in this thread haven't even offered anything constructive to help this woman. I actually took the time to post links and suggest someone that she may call for a lead on actual help in finding these dogs homes.
And no, I haven't lived a privileged easy life. I've worked my ass off to get to where I am today and quite frankly that's no one's business anyhow. You sound like an emotional, hysterical bunch of children. |
First of all, no one directly said anything to YOU. It was directed at anyone being negative. Don't be so defensive. We're just saying that it is no one's right to judge anyone unless they've walked in their shoes. Not everyone is going to have advice, but what we can do is offer support, which is what most of us are doing.
Things can be taken from you in the blink of an eye. Life is full of ups and downs and just because she might have to give up her dogs, doesn't mean she's not working hard. I'm glad you are in a stable situation right now, but God forbid, what if something bad were to happen and you had to make this decision? Would you want someone to offer you support or be negative?
And by the way, name calling really isn't very mature, especially for someone who just referred to everyone has "children".