From a guy,
I hear a lot of frustration from just about everyone who has posted so far.
He's pretty good about helping out with household chores (sometimes), but not very much.

Sounds like a heart to heart talk is in order with some requests/tasking.
I work rotating shifts (started 11pm-7am tonight) and I still do my share, plus, around the house (dishes, laundry, trash), yard, pool and take care of the boyz. Last thing I do before leaving for a Sun-Thu night shift is ask "What time do you want me to call you in the morning? "
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Zack, Zeke, Zoey, Zipp RIP 6/28/12