He needs to step up! My husband is retired-I'm not. The first couple days I came home to find him camped out in his chair. After cooking and cleaning up for a while I had had it. I came home one day and dh asked "what's for dinner?" I told him I ate at work because it was too tiring to come home and cook. So, if he was hungry he could make himself something. Now most nights when I get home he has dinner ready or plans to go somewhere because he's hungry.
