OH BOY DO I UNDERSTAND!!!! THANKFULLY its not my hubby that doesnt do a dang thing... its my bil... HE drives me CRAZY!!!!! Im soooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo sick of having to clean up after him and his kids when his kids are here (every other weekend) and if I dont do it..... I have since refused to do it... my hubby will... its sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo dumb I just want to kick my bil in the head!!!! so believe you me I FEEL YOU!!! Im ss your bf is not lifting a finger... its really hard! HUGS whew I feel a little better too!!!