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Originally Posted by Akbritt  I know, i dont want to burn any bridges, but im hurt i guess  She isnt really one to talk about stuff like that, i mean, she has made me mad before, and the way we get over is , to just get over it. She gets defensive when i bring up something i think she did or said wrong, and then i get angry all over again. |
I don't consider it bridge burning to ask about your stuff... It stinks when this kind of thing happens.
Being defensive is just her way of shifting blame and justifying her actions. Being mature is all about "owning your ****" and if you make a mistake, you take responsibility for it and fix it. I know you have been friends for a long time, maybe it is the right time to look at this as an opportunity to really be powerful in creating the kind of friendship that works for both of you.