I have seen this thread come up and there have been so many people giving condolences to the OP including myself. Although it is very sad and a horrible thing to have happened I just want you to be aware of something that I discovered. Not only has she never been back on YT since her original post on 1/10/08 BUT she has posted this same story all over the internet on many forums just like YT. She will not be back to see the outpouring of sympathy or any of the stories that other have told regarding this. It is just a campaign on her part to spread this story as much as possible. We have been used and abused