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Originally Posted by chloesMama  First of all, his great Aunt is wrong , Leo is adorable !
As far as the rest , I would just leave Leo home if your only going over for an hour or two. If your going to be longer I would tell Eric to tell them, " Look we want to come over but the cat is always stalking and trying to hurt Leo and we don't want that , we know it's your house but if we are coming and bringing him with us , you are going to have to put away the cat for a bit ".
It seems like his mom likes when you guys visit and while I know it is their house , they need to understand that you want to protect Leo , and if they want you there they will just have to put the damn cat away .  |
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Originally Posted by Teiya I have to agree with Karrie. If the relationship between you and your bf is serious and you think there might be a future, just leave Leo at home while you are visiting. While I know you love Leo, it is their house and just like you wouldn't want them bringing their cat with them to visit you, I don't think it's fair to expect them to just accept Leo. In the end, the rivalry you'd spawn isn't worth it. Lep will be fine for a few hours by himself. |
I agree that it is their house, but they live 2.5 hours away from us. So, if we go it would be for a weekend. Luckly my parents do not live to far from them so I try to leave Leo with them if I have to go over to his house. If I didn't have somewhere close by for Leo to stay then it would be a huge problem.