Thx Aimee for ur reply, i sit for her regularly when she has to go somewhere, its a few hours everytime but i guess, its enough time to teach mine the same habits, another thing that gets to me, i dont intend to run my friend down at all and i have spoken to her about it to no avail, she keeps telling me that her puppy eats very badly, but she feeds her the same food she feeds her adult labrador x chowchow.... now i have given her my opinion on that, but she tells me thats all she wants to eat and refuses puppy food... whats so strange is that the times i sit for her pup she eats at my place and i feed her what i feed my puppy ( royal canin ) and she cleans her dish, her puppy is very skinny and her coat is dull... i have given her some of this food to take home with her to try and she tells me that she wont eat it at home?
what im really worried about is the pups health, i mean we all want our babies to grow into healthy adults huh.
What frustrates me is that i dont know the underlaying problem it makes me feel sad coz i want the best for this pup as i would for any animal, i cant discribe the feeling i get when i see Chelsey and the other pup together... Chelsey is such a bubbly chubby happy baby and then theres this other little thing that looks in need of i dont know what

she doesnt seem to grow either but thats probably coz she doesnt get what she really needs .....
i really dont know what else i can do... if anyone else comes up with an idea ill gladly take any advice