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blancla · 02-25-2009, 09:14 AM

First of, let me please say that what I am about to type is in no way meant to belittle anyone or offend anyone.

*****BJH & Peanut you have been a big help to me, and it is greatly appreciated***

I'm beginning to feel like this argument is my fault for even posting about my Ellie. It's really sad that all of these debates are happening because I felt that some comments were a little harsh. I know that you don't know me and don't know my situation, let alone know anything about my Yorkies.

I came here because I was upset that Ellie got pregnant as early as she did, but she has been in a vets care from day 1. I called them immediately when I realized what had happened. I was going to breed her anyway, just not this early. Please don't judge, accidents do happen and I learned from it.

I wanted to share my excitement with other breeders and Yorkie fans and hopefully make some friends in the process. I posted a thread asking if there were any breeders in my area that would be interested in being a mentor so that I could learn as much as possible before the big day. I didn't get the responses that I was looking for. So, I privately contacted some breeders based on their previous posts and found BJH and Peanut. They have been helping me through PM's and have been great.

I want to remind everyone that speaking to someone is much different than reading a reply on a post. Through the computer one can't tell in what meanor a comment was suppose to be. It could have been meant to be helpful, but then comes across as harsh. Me being human, thought that some of the comments were very harsh, but when thinking about it, maybe they didn't understand my original post either. So, you move on.

I do have to say, that I have met some really cool people on here. However, I am pledging that if I can offer anyone advice, a word of encouragement or some help, then I am going to do just that based on what I have learned from other breeders on here and my personal experience. I am also going to remember what my mother taught me, if you can't something nice, then don't say anything at all.

P.S. Ellie is fine and is very very big. Her temp is 98.1

02-25-2009, 09:14 AM	#28
blancla YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: Longwood, FL Posts: 1,122	You know....... First of, let me please say that what I am about to type is in no way meant to belittle anyone or offend anyone. ***BJH & Peanut you have been a big help to me, and it is greatly appreciated* I'm beginning to feel like this argument is my fault for even posting about my Ellie. It's really sad that all of these debates are happening because I felt that some comments were a little harsh. I know that you don't know me and don't know my situation, let alone know anything about my Yorkies. I came here because I was upset that Ellie got pregnant as early as she did, but she has been in a vets care from day 1. I called them immediately when I realized what had happened. I was going to breed her anyway, just not this early. Please don't judge, accidents do happen and I learned from it. I wanted to share my excitement with other breeders and Yorkie fans and hopefully make some friends in the process. I posted a thread asking if there were any breeders in my area that would be interested in being a mentor so that I could learn as much as possible before the big day. I didn't get the responses that I was looking for. So, I privately contacted some breeders based on their previous posts and found BJH and Peanut. They have been helping me through PM's and have been great. I want to remind everyone that speaking to someone is much different than reading a reply on a post. Through the computer one can't tell in what meanor a comment was suppose to be. It could have been meant to be helpful, but then comes across as harsh. Me being human, thought that some of the comments were very harsh, but when thinking about it, maybe they didn't understand my original post either. So, you move on. I do have to say, that I have met some really cool people on here. However, I am pledging that if I can offer anyone advice, a word of encouragement or some help, then I am going to do just that based on what I have learned from other breeders on here and my personal experience. I am also going to remember what my mother taught me, if you can't something nice, then don't say anything at all. P.S. Ellie is fine and is very very big. Her temp is 98.1