02-20-2009, 04:02 AM
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Originally Posted by LolaLove So, I just ran into her again, and spoke to her a little bit about it. I told her about YT again, but she didn't seem very interested. I'm going to email her the link though, just keep pushing it and pushing it....just so she can get SOME help and support and people on here will better be able to explain the risks than I'm able to do. I've definitely emphasized the risk of losing Fluffy, and of course she doesn't want that to happen, but yet, I guess it's still not enough. That is honestly the saddest part about all of this I think. She told me that, "this time around", she's going to buy a crate and when she goes to work during the day, she will keep the mom and the baby in the crate. Her method of thinking is all wrong, and it's so frustrating.
On top of all this, another thing has been bothering me too. She NEVER lets her dogs out of her tiny apartment. I hardly ever see them outside. They use pee pads, so they just stay in the small apartment day in, and day out. I've offered to have them over to play, or meet outside on the lawn, but it never ends up happening.
I'm sorry to keep going on and on about it, but I've been feeling this way for so long now, and it feels really good to let it out and be supported in my views about it. She's a very nice person, but it's very hard to watch this happen, and not be able to do anything about it. I just need to pray for the little furbabies who are the ones at risk in exchange for what she thinks will make her happy.
Thanks everyone for your support!! YT is such an amazing place!!! (If only, I could get my neighbor to realize this!!!) | That is what YT is all about "support".
All you can do is tell her what you know, and that you have done.
Hoping the best for the 2 of them, maybe she is not pregnant and she will have her fixed
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