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Originally Posted by ytsirk27 I understand everybodys point of view i do...maybe im shortchanging myself..i dont know...I just know that I have wanted a yorkie for 10 years and the pups were sooo expensive that i thought since i can breed (if i have good stock)  that i could help other ppl out thats all im trying to do!! I dont mean to be a B(*&CH but something were said hurtfully and i took them wrong. I apologize for any miscommunication but i still would like to do some good! Am i welcome to come back |
The problem with this forum like all others is that you can not hear a tone of voice. All we have to look at is words.
We write things with good intentions and they are taken the wrong way by both sides. You will find that 90% of the people here are good people who do not want to hurt another persons feelings.
Sometimes some of us feel that a certain group will ask questions in a attempt to yank the chain of some members. We have a group here who like to cause pain and fighting and do not care who gets hurt in the process. You will soon learn when to stop, drop and crawl when caught in the crossfire of one of those battles. Some people whould argue if you said the name of the forum was Yorkie Talk.
You do not need to feel sorry about anything. Many of us posted cause we did not want you to get into a finacial situation in which you, your two legged or four legged family would suffer. For example whrn I talk money it is not to be the person to scare you from breeding cause I want to breed all those puppies myself. I want you to be prepared that if something goes wrong in the middle of the night you have the funds to take your baby to the vet and get the medical care needed. I do not want it to sit at home because the care is not in the persons financial budget. I know of breeders who let a bitch die because they were not going pay $1,500.00 for a c-section at the emergency animal clinic in the middle of the night. They waited until the next morning for thier vet - when the cost was cheaper.
I have been intoducing my new clients to yorkie talk- I show them the threads posted by some of these folks and it is good for laughs. By doing so I am hoping that they will not get hurt feelings when they get the nerve to join and ask questions or post. Helps them to understand that a lot of people are just blow hards. No matter what the subject they know all the answers. There are a lot of caring good people here- who care about you and the breed.