I'm sorry your day has been so awful

(((hugs))) But I am glad you and Amelia were not hurt . I swear , kids make me nervous as I drive past them playing on a dry road , never mind a snow covered slippery one !
I hope Amelia is feeling better soon. Don't worry about your neighbor...bang the wall back

If she cannot understand a sick baby cry than she isn't much of a mom.
I hope the rest of your night gets better and tomorrow brings only good things