first off- WELCOME
second i'm sorry you are having such a hard time- it can be difficult. Take a look at this thread- it was put together by many people here on YT and has some GREAT info on how to know if your "breeder" is looking out for the interest of her pups or her pocket book
http://www.yorkietalk.com/forums/yor...ead-first.html
also try looking on the AKC website- they have a list of registered breeders by state.
all else fails- you can post on here with a link to your "breeders" site and many on here can help you figure out if it is a good place or not.
Good luck finding your fur girl