Words can not express my feelings for you Joan, and now Mike, my heart goes out to you both, I have been in your shoes and know how the pain last for a long time, but she and Jack are together running and play together, I pray God will wrap his arms around you both and ease your pain. For never meeting you in person, you are in my heart, and you know if I could ever do anything to help, I would be there in a minute. Big hug to you my friend