Personally, I would give my Mom one of the pups
and my husband!!

I really feel that he's being unreasonable. I only have one Yorkie and I cannot imagine how difficult it would be to have more ... she is a fulltime job 24/7 and
my husband helps me!
Seriously, I think you should be able to give one to your Mom, if you want to and you should be able to choose which one. Also, if this breeding is a one time deal for you, I would have her spayed and not have any more accidents. Please, bear in mind ... this is what
I would do!