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Originally Posted by Lolapup  Come on now. Let's wake up and smell the coffee!! Where to start......I am the 9th of 10 children and I know first hand what it was like fighting for attention...ANY attention. My Dad worked too many hours and my Mom was exhausted. There is NO WAY one person can give the care and attention needed to 14 children all by herself.
I AM one of the welfare Mom's that all you tax payers are paying for. Out of necessity. Not want. Believe it! I have a severely disabled 15 year old son. He is autistic, epileptic and is fed 24/7 via a gastric pump. Understand I'm not complaining one bit. He IS my life. I knew when he was 10 months old that he had issues and had my tubes tied. Having a child on the "spectrum", how can you honestly say that she could care for all 14?? Why in hell did she want more children. She already had 6 and one autistic. Not only will that child not get the attention he will desperately need, but there is a good chance that others may also be on the spectrum. Genetically that's a fact. THAT is what's got me upset.
Incredibly selfish!!! I can only hope and pray that Child Protective Services does a thorough investigation before allowing those prescious babies to go home with her.
One more thing. She CHOSE to have the babies and live off the system. Not fair to the taxpayer OR my son. We are on the system out of necessity. As of Jan/09 many of his medications and supplies are no longer paid for by the "system". I can barely get by on the $900 we get a month and have to ask family to pay for things. So yes, myself and taxpayer absolutely have the right to be pissed!
Okay...I'll get off my soap box |
I was one of 5 and I know it's hard to get all the attention you need or should I say want.
Honey as you said you are on there out of necessity. I have no issues with that. But when it comes to people scamming the system that really works my nerves. It's horrible that she can take advantage and it makes it harder for folks like yourself that really should have the help.
I know in the case of my two friends that have autistic sons they refused to have more children for fear that it would happen again. Obviously she has no such thought function. Hopefully by the grace of god those babies won't suffer from any genetic or other ailments due to her selfish reasoning.