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Originally Posted by LittleLily  I agree, they rule the house. Just like toddlers, ignore them when they are acting up. They were generally get the clue if you do not cater to their whining. They loveeeeeeeeee to be paid attention to and most of the time that is not a problem at all, however, they need to know that that there are times when they can't be the center of attention. Try ignoring it, while reassuring them everything is okay. I find when I need to get work done and will need time alone, I play with her first, so she tires out. That usually works.
Most of the time, I have to say, we have been blessed with an angel. |
Littlelily is right. I've had my Youkie for 3 weeks now, and I've noticed that when given the opportunity (
the 1st week) he tested my husband and I, and acted just like a baby. My last baby (child) is now 20 years old, and I never wanted another baby. (I found out... through research he was just
trying to establish himself as pack leader). He'd whine, bark excessively, growl and give me the puppy dog eyes (stare down) when he wanted to get his way.
The start of the 2nd week, I ignored him or said no whenever he displayed undesired behavior. I would then immediately praise the desired behaviors. I also try to make it a habit to praise any desired behavior
throughout the day when I notice he's behaving in a manner that I would like displayed more often. For example, when he's playing with his toys or just resting, and allowing me to get work done. I'll give him a treat and say good boy.
profusely. This way he understands that when I'm busy, this is the behavior I expect from him.
I know it's been only 3 weeks, and as long as everyone follows suit in the house, (going into my 4th week) this seems to be working.
Like LittleLily, I've been blessed with an angel that seems to be trainable by the book.
Thank God.... because,
during the first week, I was ready to give him up! I wanted more of a companion (not a baby) for company when my husbands working. Now that he's on the right path, I think i'll be keeping my Youkie.
Good luck to all those having a problem with their little ones.