[rnnw62]

First, I want to say you need to pull yourself together. I know
and believe me I know how some of this kind of stuff makes
you almost choke, but driving yourself crazy over the "what if's"
isn't going to do you or your dh any good. If what you explained
is what actually happened the judge will be smart enough to see
through what is going on and get it sorted out properly. You
may want to seek the advice of a lawyer before the 20th just to
set your mind at ease a bit.