Amelia, I'm a bad auntie! I forgot your birthday. You look so darling in your pretty little dress and I do so love the red shoes. Good choice mommy!
Mommy did a good job of getting the kitchen redecorated and your cake looks delicious. I don't suppose you saved me a piece did you? Of course not, I didn't think so.
Now about Wyett. Uhem, you are the older lady here, so I expect you to do the honorable thing and let him have his space dear. And in case mommy forgot to tell you, young boys are generally rude and obnoxious and have no sense of propriety. So don't let your feelings be hurt, it's just how thay are - all of them!
(psst - it doesn't change much as they get older either - but one can always hope
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