Hon, You're sweet to take all of those feelings into consideration,but this is for you. I agree with your sister,what a neat idea. The rock an lily thing is a cool idea. My tattoo artist is just that ...an artist. She drew all mine freehand. I would try to find someone to draw it. When my pops died,my cousin did a tat in his memory. R.i.p. pops and his passing date . She incorporated flowers and a cross and it's just her style. Some people in our family were turned off by it. Too bad. not there thing,that's fine. Tattoo's are forever,and usually reflect things people like and want to remember forever...What a better way to do so. Go for it girl!!! Love to see it !!!! Ask if anyone can draw something for you...even on this site there are alot of talented people that draw and paint.
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