Sorry you're having such problems. Mine follow me every where I go too. My husband says one day their going to crawl up my butt. I don't have problems when I leave, because they keep each other company. I don't know if this will work, but maybe if you take a bath without the candles, and let her come in with you she'll see what's going on, and become disinterested. Of course you'll have to take a shower when you're done.
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