Thanks guys
I feel better now. I thought maybe I was being to demanding ,but you all have reinforced my decision.
I know the guarantee thing is a biggy and I DO usually give a guarantee but I feel I just can not with such a small girl , so that is why I am trying to find her a forever happy healthy home at no charge even though I have put out a few hundred dollars toward her care so far....sigh.
I think people also don't like it when I tell them how dependent she is and can not be caged . The truth is I REALLY think she would die if caged as I tried it a few nights and it made her a shivering wreck.