your right just because i make the decision not to get her spayed does not make me a bad moma! they make you feel so bad when you say your not going to get them spayed they are like its whats best for the dog and if you dont then you are horrible for not doing it because she could get this and this and blah blah blah! when i went in with bella she was wearing her panties because she just happedned to be on her heat cycle and i was like shes in heat and my vet made a comment like i thouight she was putting me out! Bella being in heat does not bother me one bit. the thing is now i will have to put her under because of the teeth problem and i am scared for her and i both, the idea of that really freaks me out. my dentist said i should prob have my wisdom teeth taken out and i am scared to do that to myslef let alone bella |