I LOVE LOVE, er, did I mention...LOVE....Extreme Repair Hand Lotion from BeautiControl!!! It is WONDERFUL!!
I also like Lubriderm Intense Skin Repair (at Wal-Mart)...it really compares to the BeautiControl one and is about 1/2 the price!
My dermatologist recommended Gold Bond Ultimate Healing w/ Chamomille, Eucerin Lotion and using plain Vasoline at night (smother all over or just on hands, feet, etc. and cover w/ sweats, socks, gloves, etc).
I found that if I use baby oil right after the shower (even before I dry off), that really helps too! --and don't worry about feeling like an oil slick
because it soaks right up!