I would go and look and pick a puppy on personality and looks. I wouldn't pick gender based on the reasons you want one. No offense but it is people with the intentions like yours who get dogs and then get rid of them or spoil them to the point of being snappy. Not saying you will, but like one of the PP said these are NOT fashion accessories. They are pets, animals and shouldn't be bought because they can get a cute dog house or cute clothes. It is hurtful to read this for me. I wanted a female because I grew up with female dogs and the only male dog we had was crazy and felt a female was a good match for me. Of course dressing them up and all that jazz is cute but that shouldn't be your main reason for wanting a female, these may be a toy breed but they are NOT toys