I've had both male and female dogs and I like them both equally! I think you really fall in love with the dog, not the gender. I would just go and view a litter of pups, and see which one steals your heart. The bows and frills are cute, but there are cute accessories for boy dogs too. Besides, your Yorkie isn't a fashion accessory. It is a pet. What if it won't tolerate playing dressing up? You just never know!