Hi all,
Thanks so much for your responses! I am so up in the air about this. My fletcher does mark, he'll lift a leg on anything even if nothing comes out. I need to break that habit IF I don't get him fixed. The thing is Fletcher has such a sweet outgoing personality. He even watches tv!! Its so cute! I am so afraid that getting him fixed will make his personality different. I have 2 boys and my Dexter is fixed. Dexter is a doll and very very cuddly... needy most would say. He became like that after his neuter, before it he was independant and fearless. I don't want my fletcher like that too. Dexter is also dog aggressive. He gets along great with Fletcher but they were litermates so they have always been together, but he is either afraid of or trying to attack any other dog.
When I talk to Fletcher his eyes speak 1,000 words.. he stares at me with all the love in the world radiating from them. Its precious. My Dexter barely stares at me, when he does, its like his eyes are empty. I know he loves his mama but his eyes just don't speak like Fletchers do. Not to mention, Dexter is a 5.5lb peanut... people LOVE him. Everywhere I go he gets all the attention. He is cuddly and tiny. But Fletch, he is a bundle of energy, ears always up, always curious and alert. I would miss his personality so much if it changed. **SIGH** maybe Im dramatizing this more than it should be... but I'm just afraid.
thanks for all your help!