Congratulations on your engagement!!! I just wanted to write & quick note & let you know that (heaven forbid) if things go wrong, they will work themselves out. At my first wedding, my daughter (who was 2 at the time) was the flower girl and she played peek-a-boo with my dad the entire time. While I was freaking out about it, it ended up being one of the best things that happened that night. We got some awesome pics of her, and all of the guests thought that she was the cutest thing EVER!!!
AND....when it came time to finally marry the man of my dreams....we had our wedding planned and 2 days before we were to be married, he broke both of his legs in a motorcycle accident!!!!!
So, on our wedding day, we were in the hospital, and 2 weeks later when we got home, we went to a JP and got married.......with him in his wheelchair and wearing matching t-shirts & shorts because that's all that he could put on. Honestly, as crazy as this sounds, it couldn't have been more perfect. I was so happy that he was still alive, I couldn't have valued him more at that time. I knew how lucky I was to have him.....and I still am. He is the most amazing man EVER.....and now we always have an exciting story to tell about our wedding
Just enjoy whatever happens....and cherish every moment! Best wishes!!