Ok so my sis had her 2nd surgery today to insert the metal rods and plates so I just rang her to check how she's doing and hubby answered. He said shes not feeling too good and then I hear her

crying in the background

She is in sooo much pain and only has paracetamol which barely takes the edge off

I did'nt know what to say

I wanted to talk to her,comfort her-be her big sis. But her hubby said she was'nt up to talking and theres nothing else I could do except tell him to let her know I'll ring tomorrow

And now I feel helpless and useless and heartbroken for her. I know he's her husband and I don't want to interfere, I just wish that I was there to give her a big hug and let her know I'm there for her