Well Joey a boy and we still love the topknot, to me it's just a Yorkie thing and good on both sexes. This site has some great tips for getting them use to bows and bands, and it also has instructions on how to put a bow on using the double band method. There is no way they can pull it out, if you follow the instructions.
Casual Way to Put Dog Bows In Once they get use to it you can go back to the normal way, but don't use the band from the bow to hold up the topknot, use a seperate band for this, and the bow's band, barrette, or clip goes around that.