I agree!! The knot is great! It helped me alot in getting ideas about dresses, flowers, centerpieces, and everything including ideas on how to do a bilingual reception. I just got married 1yr and 5 months ago, so it's pretty recent for me too! Keep notes so you can remember what reception sites you liked best and cakes and everything. Kewtee is right, do what makes you happy. Those cakes look great by the way! Good luck and keep us posted. You're going to have such a blast!