Congratulation!!!
I was just married a little over a year ago so I totally feel for you. It can be very stressful, Have you thought about hiring a wedding planner? We ended up having a wedding in San Diego and then 2 receptions in 2 different states including indiana where I am from.
but it was all worth it! Anyways get lots and lots of books and its a good idea to get all the information you can from experienced event planner.. I used this site alot when I was planning...
www.theknot.com. It was soo much help.
good luck and take care
Brianna