I had a similar situation with my DW. I did the male equivalent of pouting & crying. I went by myself to meet Gus. If I had taken my DW with me, she'd have said "Let's think some more." We'd still be thinking 10 months later.
It took about 6 months for my DW to really warm up to Gus. Now she thinks he's so cute, & affectionate. My wife rarely smiles, & is usually grouchy. However, when Gus greets her she bursts into a large smile, & she become's warm & calm.
I think the name change is doable. I think it's the tone of voice more than the actual name.
Good luck. I think it will work out very well.
Last edited by bildio; 01-01-2009 at 02:36 PM.
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