Boo has never liked "bows" either, and my DH is adamant about no top knot for Boo. I've been putting Gracie Ruths hair up in scrunchies from the very beginning. I wanted her to get use to them and not fight it...well not
too much.
When we got Yogi we saw we were going to need a bell on him to keep track of where he was. So every morning right after I put G's hair up, I'd put Yogi's collar on. Boo sits and watch G and Yogi get "special" attention from Momma every day. Last week he finally horned in and insisted I give
him some special attention. I put his hair up in a lovely red scrunchie and he ran to Daddy to show off. My DH wasn't too happy, but when he saw Boo strutting around with his head and tail held high he had to laugh. So now every morning after I'm done with G and Yogi, I just spend a few seconds messing with Boo's hair, giving him kisses on top of his head and telling him how handsome he is. This seems to meet his need for Special Momma Attention.