Thanks for the replies, I will pass the information ladyjane provided and also tell her to just join YT! Her Peanut looks a lot like the coloring of Ashley V's Smokey. I pointed out what an "expert" she was having to ask what breed he was in the first place
She was a bit less stressed out in her E mail she sent this morning. I think that getting some sleep and having a clear head to look back on all that drama at the pet store sure helped her see things in a different light.