I think you lost the spirit of Christmas due to the economy. Im sure EVERYONE is feeling it and it hurts. Try to remember that christmas is about getting together and being with family and friends. Do not worry about gifts and presents and spending money. Offer everyone who comes a glass of eggnog, hot chocolate or warm cider, some homemade sugar cookies and have some Christmas music going and your tree lit up!
I know its hard to feel the spirit when things seem so bleak, but if you don't put in the effort you'll regret missing it when things start to look up again. This is my first Christmas in 32 years that I will not be with ANY of my immediate family. Im trying to not to think of that and just enjoy it for what it is now.
Merry Christmas to you and your family.
