Ok, I would be upset that he was digging around in my personal stuff and looking at reciepts. My BF and I dont keep secrets from eachother, but we also dont go messing around in eachothers, purses walletts ect.
If he is uncomfortable getting gifts from your family and is snippy with them about it, there may be underlaying issues that you don't know about. That would be my main concern. But it is something you can talk about and work through.
I would suggest getting him a visa gift card he can use anywhere he wants as his main present, and if you still want to get him something personal make it a small gift he can't get upset about. Or you can always take him out for a romantic New Years Eve dinner as a Christmas Present, that way you get to share some quality time and have a great ending to a frustrating time and a wonderful start to a new year. And if you play your cards right he might spend the gift card on you! JK! lol!
I hope you can work through this and have a very Merry Christmas!!!! |