I have a boy who is like that always has been,he will sometimes eat when the others eat as a competition but other wise I have to hand feed.he is 15 mths now so I am no help. I could never get him to do it on his own for long.when I try to make him he loses weight
I hope you find an answer.I am a stay at home mom and I will be going back to work soon and I worry about him.