Can you ask your husband to reconsider his position? I'm sure there's a backstory as to why they are "your" dogs, but it's not like a cd collection -- these are living, breathing beings with needs and feelings of their own. If he is not working the kind of hours that you are, it seems like it would be a nice, supportive, husbandly thing to do to tend to your loved ones when you are not available. If nothing else, if they don't get the attention they need, they will act out, and that will affect both of you. |