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Originally Posted by upindust  I really think it's rude for anyone to advise someone to not have kids. I had to raise my little sisters from the age of 6 up until the day my mom died. I know how much work kids are and I know how much patience they take and I find it SEVERELY offensive when someone tells me not to have kids. I also babysit my friends two year old when her husband gets a 24 hour watch. I'm not this easily frustrated with kids as I am with my dog. With kids i have this instinct in knowing what they are about to get into. With kids you know what they can and cannot get into.. there are no surprises really if you think ahead of time. i had no clue my dog could jump the way he can because he NEVER does it when i'm home or if he tries he acts like he can't do it..my friend was amazed at how well i did with her son. he didn't ask for junk food once instead I had him eating healthy the entire night, and he ate grapes which apparantly he hates according to his mom.yet he laid on the floor with me and munched on them. Kids are completely different then pets. my dog acts like a mindless two year old at times but trust me a real two year old is different then a dog acting to similarities.and if I had a two year oldI would of had a mattress protector on the bed but since it was just going to be ME on the bed and I knew I wasn't going to drink on the bed or pee on it I didn't have to worry about it and I was going to get one with this paycheck but pushed it back alittle. Plus a little kid could not climb up on this bed at all. I'm still amazed teddy could jump on it! I have no clue how he does it I tested him the first day I got it to see if he could jump up on it and it appeared that he couldn't.I'm sorry I care about wher emy dogs go potty and I've learned how to get pee out of anything. I take VERY VERY VERY good care of my things. I care about my dogs mistakes and I work to fix them. I would never want my carpet smelling like urine. which is why I semi obsessed ove rmy hallway because it smelled like it and I managed to get it out in a day. I'll do the same with stains when I get kids.. only I'll expect stains. With kids you expect certain things to happen. You know what is going to happen for sure. Thats why they are making more no mess toys out there and making paint that is easily washable (aka crayons). I'm just lucky enough to be the master of stains. I've managed to get dried blue koolaid out of creme colored carpet. My husband is a klutz so having him around is kind of like having the mess of a two year old.I know with a kid you wouldn't let them draw all over the walls and be like hmm my fault and then clean it off and go on with your day. You'd tell them it was wrong and have them help you clean it off... Now teddy can't help me clean up his messes but I can show what he did and tell him bad to it which ironically enough he KNOWS when he does someting bad because I'll come home and he'll show me, put his head down and lay down. I don't mind if he finds paper and chews on it but it looks like I may have to go back to rewarding him for peeing outside so he understands thats the place to go again.But don't insult my ability to be a parent again. |
Dealing with a child is 100 times more difficult than dealing with a small dog.* There is a limit to what a dog can reach and what they can get into.* With a child, there is no limit.* I raised 6 kids and have 14 gradkids, and if a kid can do it, mine have done it.They can open cupboard doors and refrigerator doors and bedroom doors and bathroom doors and closet doors.* They can climb onto counter tops.* They pop keys off of your laptop keyboard and lose them, they use a scissors and cut things they get juice out of the refrigerator and spill it. they get into makeup and tampons and toilet paper and cereal and flour.* you name it they can get into it.*They also pee on things and poop on things and vomit on things and bleed all over our $200 dollar dress.** They break things and flush your cell phone down the toilet down the toilet, then they flush it until it overflows and leaks through the floor and ruins your basement ceiling and you have to call a plumber to fix the toilet.* They put rubber balls in the oven and it melts all over and you have to buy a new stove.* They put crayons in their pockets and it melts all over your dryer
A little pee on a mattress.* that is a very minor issue, I can sleep with that.